these definitions courtesy of UrbanDictionary.com (Updated and edited 27 July 2011. To those of you that have visited this site before and found typos, I do apologize! I hope all the errors have been corrected. But that’s what I get for using UrbanDictionary.com!)
1. friends with benefits
Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogamous relationship or any kind of commitment
2. friends with benefits
Friends by day, sex partners by night.
Wow, John and Jane are more than friends, they are friends with benefits
3. friends with benefits
1. A safe relationship, that mimics a real partnership but is void or greatly lacking jealousy and other such emotions that come with a serious relationship.
2. A physically involved relationship, where both partners enjoy some comforts of sitting on the fence between serious relationship and simple friendship.
3. Any relationship that can only be categorized as being between Friends and Partners, also referred to as More then friends
Two people break up over complications of a serious relationship and decide to continue their relationship a step down, but not far enough as to have physical boundaries.
4. friends with benefits
Two friends with a very casual dating relationship. The benefits can be really good, long, flirty conversations; make-out sessions with no commitment; sex without commitment; etc.
We’re not going out. We’re just friends with benefits.
5. friends with benefits
A healthy, fun sexual relationship between two people……
Until one falls for the other, The friendship blows to pieces. And those two people find themselves worse off than they were before.
Chuck and I are friends with benefits.
6. friends with benefits
two fairly close, or very close friends have the hots for one another. they do have some sort caring for one another, but it is not one of a romantic couple.
a man and a woman who don’t enjoy commitment like to fool around with one another because they find each other attractive.
7. friends with benefits
Two very good friends that share in sexual acts with each other with no emotional connection or boyfriend-girlfriend label. Just engaging in the act of sex for fun.
“We fucked, but we didn’t date. It was just a friends with benefits type thing, don’t worry about it.”
8. Friends with Benefits
Friends with benefits can do things couples can do except without being labled as a BOYFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND, when you ask if they want to be friends with benefits with you, you both have to agree on what those BENEFITS are, and it doesn’t have to contain sex. If you both agree on sex, then it’s also considered as friends with benefits.
Guy: Want to be friends with benefits?
Girl: Sure, but what are the benefits?
Guy: Hugging, kissing, holding hands.
Girl: No sex?
Girl: Okay sure then.
That’s an example of becoming friends with benefits. You can choose the benefits you want! It doesn’t mean you have to have sex or oral or anything, as long as you decide the benefits you want and you both agree on it, then its official.
9. friends with benefits
A relationship where a man and a woman enjoy having sex with one another, but do not see each other as potential relationship material. Friends with benefits usually never works successfully with ex-boyfriends/girlfriends or anyone else you might have feelings for. The benfits are not exclusive, buyer beware!
Dick enjoyed having sex with Jane, he was young, attractive, and successful. He didn’t need any bullshit hassle of a relationship. Jane also liked having sex with Dick, she was also young, attractive, and successful and though she could do the ‘friends with benefits’ thing unfortunately she developed feelings for Dick, but realized it was futile because Dick was also having sex with X number of other women.
Jane dropped him like a hot potato, and hasn’t looked back.
10. friends with benefits
Two friends that have an attraction to each other but can’t be in an official relationship for whatever reason.
Jane and Arthur like each other but are only friends with benefits because of the age difference.
11. friends with benefits
Someone who repeatedly tells you that were cool. He very seldom calls to see hows your day going. You realize that you are the one who seem to be calling or interested. He calls you about every 4 days or so in the middle of the night around 12am or first thing early in the morning to say, Whats Up? or I need you to come over and give me some. Constantly tells you that he doesn’t want to commit or be in a relationship at the moment and that he is seeing other people on a regular and that if he chooses to have sex, he will be protected at all times. Then, he’ll turn around and tell you that he doesn’t want to hurt you or mislead you in the wrong way. But constantly calls and wants to have sex only when he wants it and never rarely when you suggest or indicate. His main focus is to please himself and not to have any concern about how you should feel or want to be loved, caressed, or pleasured.
We are nothing more than just friends with benefits.
12. friends with benefits
When 2 friends are attracted to each other in a sexual way but neither wants the commitment of a relationship. The two usually care for each other though.
After hooking up with him, I knew that our relationship would never be anything more than friends with benefits.
13. friends with benefits
A person that you have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved. However, if you’re a girl you know that it’s impossible to have a sexual relationship without getting your emotions involved. Usually you end up being afraid to tell the person that you want serious commitment because you don’t want to be rejected. You keep your friends with benefits relationship because you are afraid of losing the person all together but it hurts you because you want more. You know you should tell the person how you really feel but you can’t because you love them and you’re afraid of losing them. When you finally do tell the person that you love them they might tell you that they love you back, if they don’t then you can both move on, either way it’s worth a shot because if you don’t ask you’ll never know.
Sally: I love you John, I want more than friends with benefits.
Fred: Why didn’t you say something sooner? I love you too! Let’s be boyfriend and girlfriend.
(***Minus the L-word.)
14. friends with benefits
The best kind of friendship out there.
Me and John are friends with benefits. We like fucking but we don’t like to pay for dates.
15. friends with benefits
Two friends, a man & a woman, with a casual dating relationship; the benefits can be long, deep, flirting conversations, or Jack and Jill sessions, or mutual masturbation, or make-out sessions which can include just an exchange of oral sex or penetration sex without commitment.
We’re not dating, we’re just friends with benefits. Sometimes he comes over and we just talk, other times we masturbate ourselves without touching, then sometimes we get each other off one way or another, once in a while we fuck, its different every time we see each other.
16. friends with benefits
When two friends want to flirt, touch, hug, and mess around or more without having to commit or wonder if they are dating.
Kris and I are “friends with benefits” and now we can flirt and be all over each other without having to date.
17. friends with benefits
a girl’s way of saying sex now, relationship later.
Guy: “Wanna hook up later? I got the house to myself.”
Girl: “I’m not the booty call kind of girl, but we can be friends with benefits” (BTW, “Booty Call” is really the same thing as Friends with Benefits)
18. friends with benefits
where two people can have a sexual relationship with no emotional ties
John and Mary had sex in the hot tub and the both enjoy each others company, but they are just friends with benefits so they can have as much sex as they want and not be tied down
19. Friends with benefits
A relationship between an ex-boyfriend and an ex-girlfriend, or people who are into each other without formally dating, where sex is involved, and the woman wants to be a couple again; until the woman realizes that the man is never going to step up and make a commitment-he just wants the romping without the responsibility. Men can usually separate the physical from the emotional; women usually have a harder time of it.
Sarah: “Hey, how’s it going with Dan?”
Meg:” I thought that we were together again, until he freaked and pulled the friends with benefits only.”
20. Friends with benefits
Two individuals too afraid of commitment but they like to fondle with each other in private and public, especially when friends are around.
Brandia S. and John M. are friends with benefits
21. Friends With Benefits
Exactly what it means. A friendship which has more of a sexual relationship which doesn’t manipulate the friendship
Jerry and Mary were Friends With Benefits….. using each other for sexual favors, without the bf/gf tag
22. friends with benefits
Friends with Benefits is a term that can describe most anything. However, usually, when one talks about this phrase they are speaking of “a person with assets who can help the less fortunate person out” who is in need of money, property, a good meal, a favor, etc. This means that the friend in question likes to pay for things and in exchange, you put out for a little while. It can be a long term or a short term proposition. And, friend with benfits does not always mean putting out for sex in exchange for money. You can be doing this for other favors to that person, like for a meal, a chance to see a play, a chance to help someone get from Point A to Point B, etc. etc.
As an example, if I run an ad on Craigs List about friends with benefits, maybe this means I am looking for a good time but I am also short on cash so I would appreciate meeting someone who understands the term and a person who likes meeting a person like myself or whomever. So, in exchange for my spending a little or a lot of time with you or a group of people, it is “expected” that you are going to hand over some cash or buy me something that I need/want to satiate my needs/wants/desires. This is called ‘friends with benefits’ to put it lightly. I could run an ad in MFM or MFW or both looking for a person who has money on Craigslist or anywhere I wish to that is discreet, usually, lots and lots of it money they don’t mind burning through to give money to me, the charity in question. This is just one example of ‘friends with benefits’. There are many others.
23. friends with benefits
There’s two different meanings. (See example below.)
Girl: “I just wanna be…friends with benefits,” usually means: “Yeah, you’re cool but…I don’t really wanna be seen with you. Sorry.”
Guy: “I just want to be…friends with benefits,” usually means: “Yeah, I just want to get in your pants without having to do anything for you.”
24. friends with benefits
Becoming physically or romantically involved with a friend.
This definition encompasses one or all of two forms:
a) Getting “cuddly cuddly” with a friend and “testing the waters”
b) Engaging in sexual relations.
“Bobby and Brianna are friends with benefits, but only in the “cuddly cuddly” way.
25. friends with benefits
friends that act like they go out but don’t
Dustin and I aren’t going out but we are friends with benefits.
26. friends with benefits
Usually, a couple of friends who desire a physical relationship with each other, but not involving any emotional ties with one another.
The guy gets some action, and the girl gets used and left out to dry….
“friends with benefits”
27. friends with benefits
Two people who break up over complications of a serious relationship and decide to continue their relationship a step down, but not far enough as to have physical boundaries.
Mike and Jane were passionate for each other. Due to circumstances, they couldn’t bear to be boyfriend and girlfriend anymore. But they still loved each other, and missed each other enough to be friends with benefits. In this way, they could still enjoy the comforts of intimacy but without strings attached.
28. friends with benefits
A healthy loveless sexual relationship with one or more partners.
2 or more people having sexual intercourse without loving one another. Also prefer to be kept secret.
29. friends with benefits
This is another word for a Booty Call. Usually 1 person ends up getting hurt (the female) because her feelings become involved. It’s rare for the man to get hurt because most men don’t confuse feelings with sex like us women do. If you think you can accept this type of relationship thinking it will evolve into something more later, you are wrong! Expect a lot of CLOSING TIME calls. That means the bar is closed and he didn’t find anything better so he calls you for booty.
Few and far in between phone calls, usually late at night, and secretive.
30. friends with benefits
Friends that meet for sex as often as possible. They know little about what the other does when they are not together. Don’t ask, don’t tell. Meetings can be prearranged or last minute booty calls. Neither is willing or able to become more than a causal sex partner for whatever reason. It’s all about the sex.
Two people meet. The attraction lead them into bed. They mutually agree to continue to meet occasionally for sex and just be friends with benefits.
31. friends with benefits
the cause of sexually transmitted diseases
guy :: yeah I’m friends with benefits with Suzie, Kate, and Jen. now I have Chlamydia and I don’t know from who or who I gave it to.
32. friends with benefits
friends with benefits is what happens when the guy u like, likes someone else as well as u, and is waiting to c if the other girl will make a move.
James likes marry and Julie, so he’s Friends with Benefits with Julie, while he’s waiting to move in on marry
33. friends with benefits
When men only want sex and don’t want to commit to the woman they’re having it with.
She’s good enough to fuck, but not good enough to be my girlfriend. Therefore, we are friends with benefits.
34. friends with benefits
Friends with Benefits is a PC term for SLUT and/or Whore. This type of adultery falls into the same category. Call it what you want, but to have a friend with benefits just makes a whore out of you. Save yourself for marriage.